A Promise Is Forever

“A Promise Is Forever, in volume 4 of the Christy Miller Series.

Within my heart a garden grows
Wild with violets and fragrant rose.
Bright daffodils line the narrow path
My footsteps silent as I pass.
Sweet tulips nod their heads in rest,
I kneel in prayer to seek God’s best.
For round my garden a fence stands firm
To guard my heart so I can learn
Who should enter and who should wait
On the other side of my locked gate.
I clasp the key around my neck
And wonder if the time is yet
If I unlocked the gate today
Would he come in or run away?
I do not want to hold this key
Lord, will You keep it safe for me?
Then when he comes
If he’s the one
You’ll unlock the gate
Until then, I’ll wait.”

Where Are You?

“Where Are You?
I have waited so patiently.
Where are you?
They said if I would wait as if I was not expecting anything to happen, you would arrive.
Where are you?
I have been dreaming of you for years yet still my dreams don’t become reality.
Where are you?
I have been writing you letters and saving them for you.
Where are you?
Everyone around me is getting this question answered while I sit alone.
Where are you?
Are you asking the same question of me?
I’m right here.
Where are you?
My hand is lonely without yours to fill it.
How long must I wait?
I’m ready. Are you?
Waiting … My life feels like an endless line of waiting.
Where is my fast pass?
How can I pass go and collect you?
Why does it feel like I always get the shoots when everyone else is getting the ladders?
Where are you?
—Rachel Gunn”

What I wish I’d known

The universe always sends you signs and many chances to correct your mistakes ,if you don’t listen the first,second and third time ,it would be too late.there is always a way out if you listen

Don’t waste your time trying to change people

Your mom is sometimes right ,listen to her advice

Don’t hide your feelings,always show them ,it is okay to be vulnerable

People always show you who they are by their actions

You are only human ,cut yourself some slack

Dont act impulsively ,you will regret it.I swear you will

Interpret your own dreams ,try to remember what your dreams are about ,they contain all the clues and the answers to your problems .

Meditate,it is the best way to relax

Happiness is a choice

Love yourself ,enjoy your own company ,be responsible for your own happiness

Be yourself

Stop eating junk food ,it will ruin your body and your health

Stick to the recipe

Pay attention to your pain whether physical or emotional

Don’t be afraid to feel pain ,it will heal and transform you

Patience,patience ,patience .God will reward those who are patient

Let go of all the things and people who are not meant to be ,so you can get what you truly deserve

Read ,Read lots of books about everything and anything .Reading is the best way to find answers for all the questions that kept popping up in your head

If you are too embarrassed to ask ,Google it!

Don’t buy clothes that doesn’t fit in hope you lose weight later!

Don’t buy anything you are not comfortable wearing ,choose comfort over fashion

Don’t buy something that doesn’t fit either too tight or too baggy

That i should wear more bright colors

Blue suits me ,makes me look charming

Don’t trust the internet all the time

Law of attraction works ,the secret is to desire it then let it go!

You can obsess about anything or anyone as much as you like but eventually you have to let go

Let go ,Let God

It’s Now or Never!

Have an imaginary friend ,keep a journal and write to him or her daily

Listen to your inner voice ,trust your intuition

Never ignore the signs and the red flags

Talk to God like you are talking to a friend

Stand up for yourself ,speak your own mind ,make your own decisions

Be mature enough to be responsible for the consequences of your own mistakes

Laugh ,smile and have fun ,don’t make a big deal out of everything and don’t sweat the small stuff

It’s okay to say No!

Don’t let others cross your boundaries

Embrace solicitude

You create your life by your choices

There is universal conspiracy to manifest your dreams

Live in the Now

Forgive yourself and others

Forgive and forget ,let it go and move on!

What inspired me to write this post a book I’m currently reading and that is the title of one of its chapters and i want to reflect on things and life lessons that I wish I’d known .If you like the idea ,please post yours

When Harry Met Sally

 

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Harry: I've been doing a lot of thinking. And the
thing is, I love you.
Sally: What?
Harry: I love you.
Sally: How do you expect me to respond to this?
Harry: How about you love me too?
Sally: How about I'm leaving.
Harry: Doesn't what I said mean anything to you?
Sally: I'm sorry Harry, I know it's New Years Eve, I know
you're feeling lonely, but you just can't show up here, tell me
you love me and expect that to make everything alright.
It doesn't work this way.
Harry: Well how does it work?
Sally: I don't know but not this way.
Harry: Well how about this way. I love that you get
cold when it's seventy one degrees out, I love that it takes you an hour
and a half to order a sandwich, I love that you get a little crinkle
above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that
after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes
and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go
to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because
it's New Years Eve. I came here tonight because when you realise you want
to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of the
life to start as soon as possible.