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Ya banat



I luv this song of Nacny called “ya banat” literally translated as “you girls” 

It’s a very sweet song and it brings back sweet memories to me ,it’s about being a girl and being proud to be a girl

It’s celebrating the sweetness of girls and their natural kind heart

Its message is the female is no less than any male 

It’s a song about celebrating the feminine and we should take pride in being females ,we carry the love and the power of creation 🙂

God gave the world a great gift which is a woman called Eve ,for without her ,there would be no life and Adam would be lonely and totally lost even in heaven!

Let’s thank God for that 🙂

Sweet November



Today is 1st of November and I luv November (the month of my birthdate) ,talk about change ,miracles and magic 🙂

November is when all the dreams come true ,when I reap what I sow all the year 

November is really my fav month ,i like its weather ,its calm and serenity November is when I reflect upon everything I did and get inspiration to move on with my life 

Every November my life shifts dramatically on every level ,it’s a transformation process I have to go through

I become a new me ,a different me and the insight i gain into myself and my life make me a better person for sure

This November is special one becoz I will turn out 26 ,I mean WOW ,I didn’t feel good about turning out 25 but now I feel so good about turning out 26 ,I love the even numbers and I feel like positive change is coming my way

I have been through a spiritual awakening that changed my perspective about everything in life 

I feel a constant stillness and sense of peace inside of me I’ve never felt before in my whole life ,I become obsessed with spirituality .It opened my eyes to a whole new world of possibilities and everything becomes meaningful ,I mean life with its ups and downs has more meaning to me now 

Before I used to think that there is much suffering and misery in life and I felt like being cursed and now with my new perspective ,I feel like I’m the most blessed person on Earth for real 🙂

I used to see life as black or white without any shades in between ,now I can see the whole spectrum of colors that makes up life

The most important thing I’ve learned is that you create your own reality with your thoughts ,feelings,intentions ,actions and desires .if we understood the law of attraction and saw for ourselves how we attract every single thing into our lives by just our thoughts ,feelings and imagination ,your whole life will transform dramatically 

The other most important thing is to live a life of non-resistance ,no resistance to the good or the negative that happen to you 

Resistance is what creates our misery and pain and as they say” what you resist persists”

With this year coming to an end ,I can say It’s all about Love ,the answer is Love 🙂

Loving ourselves,Loving God ,Loving people,the creation ,the whole universe .It’s about God loving us ,giving us life so we can experience Love ,the most beautiful feeling you can ever feel and the highest vibration frequency you can reach ,love is what makes the world goes around and guess what? God is Love 🙂

It’s all about God ,surrendering to God ,loving God and worshiping God and one day you return back to God so Get to know God while you are here ,that is the most important thing you can do with your life 

Have a happy November ^_^ 

Things I would want to do before I die


Currently I’m reading this brilliant book “untethered Soul” ,I don’t want it to End .I had Alot of “Aha moments” reading it ,I love this kind of spirituality that change and transform you and resonate with you 

Everything in life comes to an End ,have you Ever thought about the end of your life ,what if you have only one week to live .As the author mentioned ,Death is the greatest teacher in life but when Death comes ,Nothing matters at all

Here’s a brilliant quote from the book 

“Let’s say you’re living life without the thought of death, and the Angel of Death comes to you and says, “Come, it’s time to go.” You say, “But no. You’re supposed to give me a warning so I can decide what I want to do with my last week. I’m supposed to get one more week.” Do you know what Death will say to you? He’ll say, “My God! I gave you fifty-two weeks this past year alone. And look at all the other weeks I’ve given you. Why would you need one more? What did you do with all those?” If asked that, what are you going to say? How will you answer? “I wasn’t paying attention… I didn’t think it mattered.” That’s a pretty amazing thing to say about your life.”

You know Death is the greatest teacher of all ,it tells you Every day that you gonna leave Everything one day and you could lose it all in a blink and Nothing really matters,we make a big deal out of life

We never live in the moment or enjoy what we already have but always thinking of what’s next ,always trying to protect ourselves from life and therefore resisting living it 

I had this inspiring thought while reading the book “untethered soul”, what if I had only one week to live,what would I do? 

If I have only one week to live ,I would do my best to give and receive love as much as I can 

I would give people the benefit of doubt

I would try to be more nice to everyone 

I will let go of my attachments to everything ,nothing will longer matter 

List of things I want to do If I had only one week to live in no particular order

1- spreading Love ,be love ,try to be a loving person ,to be open to give and receive love 

2- I would dance to my favorite songs till I drop exhausted

3-I would call all my friends and tell them how much I love ,appreciate and miss them 

4-I would tell mom how much I love her and ask her to forgive me for Everything 

5- I would pray to God ,talk to God one last time about my whole journey and ask him to forgive me and tell Him how much I miss going home 

6-I would give all my money (if I had any left) and clothes away to my sister,friends and those in need

7- I would Wear a color I hate like orange just to tell life ,heck I’m finally comfortable being uncomfortable 😛

9-Dye my hair something outrageous like yellow or red

10- Ask all people in my life to forgive me

11- get rid of all the stuff I don’t want anyone to read 

12-Laugh at stupid things ,at my mistakes ,at myself and life becoz Nothing matters anymore

13-Cry that I gonna miss many thing but then laugh so hard becoz I had little time for sadness anyways

14- write my will 

15-As I’m going to die ,I would just let myself eat anything I crave even if it’s just junk

16-If it is raining ,I would go out ,run in the street and enjoy the rain on my face ,my last shower 🙂

17-I would run more ,jump and act like a child 

18- I would go through all the pictures I have taken and remember the sweet memories

19-I would look at a mirror ,Look myself in the eye and tell myself “I love you So much”

20-I would leave everyone in my life a sweet little note about what I love about them

21-I would read Qu’ran and feel the meaning behind every word like Savoring it 

22-I would forgive myself for Everything 

23-I would forgive everyone who had ever hurt me intentionally or not

24-I would Scream and Shout just for the heck of it

25- I would try to do something I couldn’t stand doing for long like Meditation 

26- I would write a poem about this journey

27-I would spend a day with my best friend 

28-I would enjoy air more ,taking deep breaths ,feeling grateful for everything

29-I would listen more as I’m hearing the last words being spoke to me

30-I would help more without being Asked

31-I would read something spiritual 

32-I would watch something funny 

33-I would try to stay connected to everyone and everything ,being in the moment

34-I would embrace the end 

35-I would focus on Love and see the love in every gesture 

36-I would choose to be happy 

You may would wonder why not doing these things Now instead of waiting for Death,Exactly My Point!

Start Living life Now ,Leave No Last wishes 🙂



I thought for Years that God created us and left us alone in this life ,struggling and trying so hard to make it work while in fact ,God has always been there all the time ,watching over us ,giving us signs ,giving us unlimited chances and opportunities to create the life we want ,a life of abundance but usually we miss out on those chances 

God always turned our misfortunes into a great opportunities for growth and healing 

Turning our losses into gains
Turning our problems and troubles into blessings in disguise
Giving us what we want when we least expect it
Making us happy after we give up and lose hope that our life will ever gonna change 
God gave us feelings to tell if we are truly aligned with what we want or not
God gave us imagination,intuition ,inner voice ,thoughts and feelings ,all are tools of creation 
God gave us Everything ,we got all the tools we need ,all the guidance and all the resources to create whatever we want but at the same time we complain all the time of lack and about how hard life is and that’s we get becoz we don’t use what we have ,we  are blind to what we already got or refuse to see it as Enough ,we are so ungrateful.I always heard it before ,start from where you are and I didn’t understand what that meant then but Now I do 
It means you got to use every talent you have ,every thing you can give to others and use it for a greater cause 
Becoz God gonna use your life anyways based on your choices ,whether it’s good or a bad life, for a greater cause that serves all humanity and isn’t that brilliant? 
God forgive us  after we have sinned and accept us ,take us back and guide us into the right path ,God love us in many ways we can’t even begin to imagine ,I really Love You God more than anything or anyone in this world 🙂

3 questions I ask myself every day


There are 3 questions i ask myself every day that changed my life completely 

The first question is : what would love do? 
Love expands us beyond ourselves ,now i approach every situation i find myself in with this question in mind ,sometimes i feel reluctant to help someone or act positively or accept something and suddenly this question pops up in my mind and the answer is always love ,to give and receive love unconditionally 
That does not mean you deny yourself love by acting like martyr or sacrifice yourself for the sake of others but also keep yourself in mind too when asking this question , so if you are so tired and someone ask you to do something ,you could say No becoz that would love would do if you truly love yourself enough 
So include yourself in this question : what would love do If I love myself enough?
Suddenly you will find yourself more loving and generous person becoz just asking this question will change your perspective completely

The second question : what is the wise thing for me to do?
We make decisions almost every day ,big and small ones and sometimes we regret our choices and decisions becoz we didn’t stop to think if it is the wise thing to do or not!
And don’t worry ,there is a part of you that already knows the answer to everything 
Also remember the universe got your back and it sends you signs to what to do and what to avoid 
Here is a little story that happened to me that emphasize this fact that the universe sends us signs to make the best decisions 
I wanted to buy something ,first i was so excited about buying it ,i saw it and i went to buy it only to find i don’t have the exact amount of money for its price then i said okay i will save until i can afford buying it ,but i couldn’t wait sometimes i am just too impatient 
So i borrowed money ,went to buy it ,to my surprise didn’t find it ,it was out of stock ,i should have took that as a sign but no i was so stubborn i went again found it but didn’t have same amount of money again ,found something else i also wanted to buy , i was shocked at how expensive it is so i left it and didn’t  buy it ,second time bought it although mom told me not to buy it ,i should have take that as a sign not to buy it but sometimes i could be so stubborn and impatient ,bought it anyways to regret buying it later 
Have i listened first time to all the signs from the universe not to do something ,the universe will try to stop you many times from making a stupid mistake but if you become stubborn and insisted ,you would regret it later!
The universe will give you many opportunities to do something to change your life like breaking up from this toxic relationship or getting you together with the one you really love if you miss the many opportunities then you will learn the hard way!!
 The third question is : what could i do now to feel better?
At anytime ,you feel bored ,sad,worried ,anxious,depressed ,ask yourself what can i do now to feel better ,no matter how crazy or illogical this thing is ,just be brave enough to do it anyways ,just to feel better but make sure it is nothing immoral or illegal!
Sometimes it would be better if you accepted the feeling ,stayed with it and then let it go but sometimes you have to do something about it 
The more you feel better ,the more you will be able to attract whatever you want from life!

Where Are You?


“Where Are You?
I have waited so patiently.
Where are you?
They said if I would wait as if I was not expecting anything to happen, you would arrive.
Where are you?
I have been dreaming of you for years yet still my dreams don’t become reality.
Where are you?
I have been writing you letters and saving them for you.
Where are you?
Everyone around me is getting this question answered while I sit alone.
Where are you?
Are you asking the same question of me?
I’m right here.
Where are you?
My hand is lonely without yours to fill it.
How long must I wait?
I’m ready. Are you?
Waiting … My life feels like an endless line of waiting.
Where is my fast pass?
How can I pass go and collect you?
Why does it feel like I always get the shoots when everyone else is getting the ladders?
Where are you?
—Rachel Gunn”

When Harry Met Sally



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Harry: I've been doing a lot of thinking. And the
thing is, I love you.
Sally: What?
Harry: I love you.
Sally: How do you expect me to respond to this?
Harry: How about you love me too?
Sally: How about I'm leaving.
Harry: Doesn't what I said mean anything to you?
Sally: I'm sorry Harry, I know it's New Years Eve, I know
you're feeling lonely, but you just can't show up here, tell me
you love me and expect that to make everything alright.
It doesn't work this way.
Harry: Well how does it work?
Sally: I don't know but not this way.
Harry: Well how about this way. I love that you get
cold when it's seventy one degrees out, I love that it takes you an hour
and a half to order a sandwich, I love that you get a little crinkle
above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that
after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes
and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go
to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because
it's New Years Eve. I came here tonight because when you realise you want
to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of the
life to start as soon as possible.


why Men Love bitches?


Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship


I‘ve read this book recently ,it’s totally Amazing .it gave women insight about how men think and react when it comes to women .if u are confused and still wonder why a relationship didn’t work ,while u were nice and everything ,then this is book is a must-read ,it gives u a guideline how to be a bitch and make a relationship works with any man.The word”Bitch” here doesn’t mean someone who is mean or easy to get but it has a positive meaning ,a bitch is a woman who has pride and speak up her mind and not afraid of being alone .it seems harsh but it’s true :Men love bitches .

Anything a person chases in life runs away.
The women who have the men climbing the walls for
them aren’t always exceptional. Often, they are the
ones who don’t appear to care that much.
A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge
to the degree that a man doesn’t feel
he has a 100 percent hold on her.
Sometimes a man deliberately won’t call, just to see how
you’ll respond.
If you start out dependent, it turns him off.
But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more
of a challenge for him to get it.
It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer.
The biggest variable between a bitch
and a woman who is too nice is fear.
The bitch shows that she’s
not afraid to be without him.
If the choice is between her dignity
and having a relationship, the bitch will
prioritize her dignity above all else.
When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t
appear docile or submissive, it becomes more
stimulating to obtain her.
Being right on the verge of getting something generates a
desire that has to be satisfied.
A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute
Whether you have terms and conditions
indicates whether you have options.
Almost immediately, you present yourself
as a doormat or a dreamgirl.
If you smother him, he’ll go into
defense mode and look for an escape
route to protect his freedom.
Whenever a woman requires too many
things from a man, he’ll resent it.
Let him give what he wants to give freely;
then observe who he is.
A bitch gives a man plenty of space so
he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage.
Then . . . he sets out to trap her in his.
If you tell him you are not interested
in jumping into a relationship with both feet,
he will set out to try to change your mind.
Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It
gets him to drop his guard.
More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too
emotionally dependent on him.
He must feel that you choose to be with him,
not that you need to be with him. Only then will
he perceive you as an equal partner.
If a man has to wait before he sleeps
with a woman, he’ll not only perceive
her as more beautiful, he’ll also take
time to appreciate who she is.
Sex and the “spark” are not one and the same.
Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly
and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex,
it reverses. The man is thinking clearly
and the woman isn’t.
Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants
a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not
giving him what he wants up front, you become his
girlfriend without him realizing it.
A man intuitively senses whether sexuality
comes from a place of security or from a place of
neediness. He knows when a woman is having
sex to appease him.
Bad habits are easier to form than good ones,
because good habits require conscious effort.
Waiting encourages this effort.
If you pull the sexual plug at the last minute, he’ll label you a
If he makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your
A quality guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves
Any time a woman competes with another woman, she
demeans herself.
When there is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key
to the lock.
Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing
things you want done because he’ll always want to look like
“a king” in your eyes.
When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get
power in an aggressive way.
When you appear softer and more feminine,
you appeal to his instinct to protect.
When you appear more aggressive, you
appeal to his instinct to compete.
He’ll let a woman who becomes his doormat
pay for dinner on the first couple of dates,
but he wouldn’t think of it with his dreamgirl.
The token power position is for public display, but
the true power position is for private viewing only.
And this is the only one that matters.
If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you
and he’ll want to give you the world.
When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything,
she gets stuck doing everything.
Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.
Talking about the “relationship” too much
takes away the element of the “unknown”
and thus the mystery.
Men respect women who communicate
in a succinct way, because it’s the language
men use to talk to one another.
When you are always HAPPY;
And he is always free to GO;
He feels LUCKY.
If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted,
you’ll create a void. Then, to replace what
you give up, you’ll start to expect and
need more from your partner.
Most women are starving to receive something from a man
that they need to give to themselves.
A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes
when he can’t pull her away from her life,
because she is content with her life.
The second a woman works overtime to
make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the
standard of that relationship.
You jump through hoops any time you
repeatedly make it very obvious you’re
giving your “all.”
You have to keep from being sucked down into
quicksand. Unless you maintain control over
yourself, the relationship is doomed.
Jumping through hoops often has a
negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity
to have his cake and eat it, too.
But when you stay just outside his reach,
he’ll stay on his best behavior.
The nice girl gives away too much of herself
when pleasing him regularly becomes more
important than pleasing herself.
The relationship may not be right for you
if you find yourself jumping through hoops.
When something is right, it will feel
easier and much more effortless.
When you nag, he tunes you out.
But when you speak with your actions,
But when you speak with your actions,
he pays attention.
When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for
reassurance that she is still “right there.”
When the routine becomes predictable, he’s more
likely to give you the same type of love he had
for his mother—and the odds that he will
take you for granted increase.
Negative attention is still attention.
It lets a man know that he has you—
right where he wants you.
When you treat him casually as though
he’s a friend, he’ll come your way.
Because he wants things to be romantic,
but he also wants to be the pursuer.
A little distance combined with the
appearance of self-control makes him
nervous that he may be losing you.
A man takes a woman for granted
when he’s interested, but will no
longer go out of his way.
When you nag, you become the problem,
and he deals with it by tuning you out.
But when you don’t nag,
he deals with the problem.
If you take his chores away from him
and praise someone else for doing it,
he’ll want his chores back.
When you nag, he sees weakness.
He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly
aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
He’ll forget what he has in you . . . unless you remind him.
Many women talk a lot out of nervousness—
which is something that men will often
perceive as insecurity.
Talking about feelings to a man will
feel like work. When he’s with a woman,
he wants it to feel like fun.
Forcing him to talk about feelings all the
time will not only make you seem needy,
it will eventually make him lose respect.
And when he loses respect, he’ll pay
even less attention to your feelings.
In the beginning, the only thing you need
to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming
around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide
his emotions for so long.
Men treat women the way they treat other men.
They “play it cool” because they don’t want to
appear weak or desperate.
The element of surprise both inside and
outside of the bedroom is important to men,
and it adds to the excitement.
Don’t always do the same thing over and over
in the bedroom. Vary it so that it doesn’t
become a predictable routine.
Most men tend to disrespect a woman who appears to be too
Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself
or speak your mind. It will not only earn his
respect, in some cases it will even turn him on.
Men often automatically assume that a bitchier
woman will be more assertive in bed, and
that a nice girl will be more timid.
When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll
go out of his way and think nothing of it.
He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t
have done for anyone else.
He’ll never respect you as being able to
hold your own unless you can stand on
your own two feet financially.
You have to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then
you will keep his respect.
Your pink slip is maintained when you can stand on your own
—with him or without him. He should never feel that you are
completely at his mercy.
When a man views a woman as a “little girl”
or a sister he has to take care of, the
passion diminishes. He doesn’t want to
make love to his sister.
The ability to choose how you want to live,
and the ability to choose how you want to be
treated are the two things that give you more
power than any material object ever will.
In a relationship of any kind, if one person
feels the other person isn’t bringing anything
to the table, he or she will begin
to disrespect that person.
Financial neediness is no different than
emotional neediness; in both instances,
he can still get the feeling that he has a
100 percent hold on you.
Regardless of how pretty a woman is,
looks alone will not sustain his respect.
Appearance may pull him in, but it is your
independence that will keep him turned on.
When a man is very consumed with not
being taken advantage of, this is a sign
that he’s “on the take.”
People will show you they have self-respect
simply by virtue of the fact that they want to
carry their own weight.
The more independent you are of him, the more interested he
will be.
If you make it too obvious that you’re excited
to get something, some people will be tempted
to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
When you alter the routine, your not being
there is what will make him come around.
Men don’t respond to words. What they
respond to is no contact.
Don’t give a reward for bad behavior.
He simply won’t respect a woman who
automatically goes into overdrive
to please him.
If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date.
Often the best way to adjust or fix the problem
is by not letting him know it’s being fixed.
When you alter your availability or
change a predictable routine, it will
mentally pull him back in.
Once you start laughing, you start healing.
You can get away with saying much more with humor than
you can with a straight face.
A man feels he’s won, or conquered a woman,
when she eats out of the palm of his hand.
At which point, he begins to get bored.
The tension that arises with a slightly
bitchy woman gives a subtle feeling
of danger to a man. He feels slightly
unsure because she is never in
the palm of his hand.
A “yes” woman who gives too much sends
the impression that she believes in the man
more than she believes in herself.
Men view this as weakness not kindness.
Be an independent thinker at all times,
and ignore anyone who attempts to define
and ignore anyone who attempts to define
you in a limiting way.
Truly powerful people don’t explain why
they want respect. They simply don’t engage
someone who doesn’t give it to them.
The most attractive quality of all is dignity.

Love in the virtual world


The most amazing feeling in the world to feel that there are some people total strangers on this vast virtual world love you for who you are Although you never met ,although you never actually talked but just exchanging comments and Likes ,it makes you feel that love has no boundaries .I was touched by many girls who consider me like their sister and say they love me without even seeing me!!
i find myself also that I love and like people without actually knowing them ,I feel their spirit .I get touched by their words .I feel deep inside that they are good people and i wish if i can tell them that I really Love you for who you are Although it may see Awkward 🙂 
The most amazing thing about internet and facebook that people don’t judge you for how you look or your status or whatever but just through your words that you type ,for who you really are as a person .I wish I can Love them as much as they love me becoz truly I feel so blessed AlhamdulilAllah 🙂 

Don’t fall in Love


Okay here’s the deal love sucks .it’s sweet and everything but it sucks becoz  when u fall in love with someone ,u hand over ur heart to that person and it’s over.forget it ,they got the remote control and they make u feel all these sweet and terrible feelings at the same time : missing ,longing,thinking ,jealousy and obsession to name a few. That’s the sucky part that u have totally no control over how u feel anymore and for a control freak like me ,that’s terrible!!! 
And the other thing is u don’t know if the person who u fall in love with is wroth all the trouble or not.i mean he or she could be an asshole or freak or just not ur type or for whatever reason so why take such a big risk!!!
But u could say that the person u fall in love with is awesome and the one and he or she isn’t like anybody u have ever known but u have to take into ur consideration that love is emotion that blinds our judgment completely .we become no longer rational and as we say “ur beloved will swallow for u stones” it means that they could see all ur faults and yet overlook them as if it’s nothing!!
But seriously the most important part is :r u sure that u gonna be with this person forever? R u sure that this relationship could work in the first place?!!!
We r in the real world hello!! wake up!! while we could love each other like crazy and can’t imagine living without each other but the truth is there’s something called “circumstances” that gets in the way .you could fight the circumstances or try to get over it but sometimes u find urself fighting alone while the other person isn’t ready or willing to make compromises to make the relationship work.
And the next thing u know you find urself crying ur eyes out becoz it just didn’t work out and you realize how foolish u was !!!
It’s not ur fault alone ,don’t beat urself up ,it always takes two persons to make a relationship work and if that other person isn’t there for u or willing to make it work then with the hell to it!!
Didn’t I tell you that love could suck the life out of u and leave u with totally nothing!!!
Or the worst u could be left with “Memories” ugh don’t get me started on that .
So it’s better to be alone and wait for The right person to come along who is ready to commit from the beginning ,wait wait don’t fall yet ,be sure that it gonna be forever and there’s a ring on ur hand and u r happily married and there r kids running around the house .now u know that he or she is trapped and they will stay whether they like it or not 😀
Yeah I like it the old-fashioned way 😛
U choose to fall or not ,it’s up to u but don’t listen to ppl who tell u that u just fall and u totally have no control over that becoz love like everything else is a mental decision u take and u choose to let ur heart go or not and my sincere advice to u :don’t fall and choose wisely 🙂