I never believed in love at first sight and i always thought that it’s something that only happen in movies until i met this guy.I met him in one of those arranged sittings in a salon because it’s the old-fashioned way to get to know someone to get married .I always hated that way and thought to myself how come i can get married to a total stranger but I never knew that i will be so attracted to this stranger guy.It all happened like a dream ,like an eye blink .that feeling when u get after waking up and trying so hard to remember what actually happens ,u just remember scattered scenes and u wish if it can be repeated again to get the whole picture of what actually happened but in my case i wanted it to be repeated again so i can be more conscious ,more involved and interested in the whole thing becoz i sit there with the I-don’t-give-a-damn attitude and i felt that i screw things up just a little bit becoz i decided to just be myself not trying so hard to impress someone or to be honest not trying at all and i could seem to other ppl at the first encounter as boring ,naive or just plain weird. I find it hard to talk to ppl who i don’t know and usually my mind goes blank in such situations and that’s what happened exactly .i was like totally silent and when i spoke i just said one word or two ,not even a complete sentence that makes sense ,i kept mumbling and murmuring and i just didn’t give a damn what impression i’m making but seriously i don’t know what hits me ,words didn’t came out of my mouth even I wanted to say something but couldn’t .I was dumbfounded ,i was like tongue-tied or something. But this guy was no like anyone I’ve ever seen before and I’ve seen plenty of people ,all different kind of characters and classes but He was so different ,I was so impressed by his knowledge ,his confidence ,his ambition and the way he carries himself .He even told me his name in a puzzle and i liked that and i thought it was cool although my reply to him wasn’t cool becoz i told him i know ur name already so the puzzle is not needed .He was fun,simple ,knowledgeable and cool ,all rolled into one but i just discard all that back then becoz i kept criticizing him in my head instead of focusing on his positive side but now i’m just Like WOW ,this guy is really awesome ,I wish if there was a time machine ,i would go back and change everything .And to top all that ,when i asked him about his birth year ,He told me exactly his birth date and it hit me ,he is a Cancerian but again i didn’t thought about it much while i was sitting there becoz who cares? but Now i’m like so attracted like magnet to this guy .I’m so into astrology so i remembered reading before about the relationship between cancer and Scorpio and when i reread that again I was like WOW ,it explained everything to me ,him being Cancer and me Scorpio make it so intense becoz cancer and Scorpio feel powerful attraction towards each other becoz they got that harmonious 5-9 vibration and they just get along so well .I’ve seen so much potential in this relationship becoz what I’ve read was so beautiful about the “children of love” and all that stuff and me feeling that intense attraction to someone ,it never happened to me before and i only met him once.I actually missed him afterwards like yeah i want to see him again or just like being in love already.it all felt weird to me and i kept building dreams in my head but reality hit me and I was rejected by this guy becoz i never heard about him since that only meeting .I felt sad and depressed for one day but I couldn’t stop thinking about him for months and i’m still replaying that one incident that seems like a dream in my head over and over again and like Editing i kept telling myself i should have said that or done that but it doesn’t matter anymore .Attraction and fate works in mysterious ways .I guess that was a lesson for me and really first impressions do count and i guess i made a bad one.anyways ,somethings are just meant to be.Wherever you are Lunar boy,crab guy ,I wish u all the best and I will pray for ur happiness and success .May God bless u Ameen
I‘ve read this book recently ,it’s totally Amazing .it gave women insight about how men think and react when it comes to women .if u are confused and still wonder why a relationship didn’t work ,while u were nice and everything ,then this is book is a must-read ,it gives u a guideline how to be a bitch and make a relationship works with any man.The word”Bitch” here doesn’t mean someone who is mean or easy to get but it has a positive meaning ,a bitch is a woman who has pride and speak up her mind and not afraid of being alone .it seems harsh but it’s true :Men love bitches .
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #1
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #2
The women who have the men climbing the walls for
them aren’t always exceptional. Often, they are the
ones who don’t appear to care that much.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #3
A woman is perceived as offering a mental challenge
to the degree that a man doesn’t feel
he has a 100 percent hold on her.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #4
Sometimes a man deliberately won’t call, just to see how
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #5
If you start out dependent, it turns him off.
But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes more
of a challenge for him to get it.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #6
It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #7
Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #8
The biggest variable between a bitch
and a woman who is too nice is fear.
The bitch shows that she’s
not afraid to be without him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #9
If the choice is between her dignity
and having a relationship, the bitch will
prioritize her dignity above all else.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #10
When a woman doesn’t give in easily and doesn’t
appear docile or submissive, it becomes more
stimulating to obtain her.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #11
Being right on the verge of getting something generates a
desire that has to be satisfied.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #12
A man knows which woman will give in to last-minute
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #13
Whether you have terms and conditions
indicates whether you have options.
Almost immediately, you present yourself
as a doormat or a dreamgirl.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #14
If you smother him, he’ll go into
defense mode and look for an escape
route to protect his freedom.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #15
Whenever a woman requires too many
things from a man, he’ll resent it.
Let him give what he wants to give freely;
then observe who he is.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #16
A bitch gives a man plenty of space so
he doesn’t fear being trapped in a cage.
Then . . . he sets out to trap her in his.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #17
If you tell him you are not interested
in jumping into a relationship with both feet,
he will set out to try to change your mind.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #18
Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It
gets him to drop his guard.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #19
More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too
emotionally dependent on him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #20
He must feel that you choose to be with him,
not that you need to be with him. Only then will
he perceive you as an equal partner.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #21
If a man has to wait before he sleeps
with a woman, he’ll not only perceive
her as more beautiful, he’ll also take
time to appreciate who she is.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #22
Sex and the “spark” are not one and the same.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #23
Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly
and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex,
it reverses. The man is thinking clearly
and the woman isn’t.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #24
Every man wants to have sex first; whether he wants
a girlfriend is something he thinks about later. By not
giving him what he wants up front, you become his
girlfriend without him realizing it.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #25
A man intuitively senses whether sexuality
comes from a place of security or from a place of
neediness. He knows when a woman is having
sex to appease him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #26
Bad habits are easier to form than good ones,
because good habits require conscious effort.
Waiting encourages this effort.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #27
If you pull the sexual plug at the last minute, he’ll label you a
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #28
If he makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #29
A quality guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #30
Any time a woman competes with another woman, she
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #31
When there is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key
to the lock.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #32
Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing
things you want done because he’ll always want to look like
“a king” in your eyes.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #33
When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get
power in an aggressive way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #34
When you appear softer and more feminine,
you appeal to his instinct to protect.
When you appear more aggressive, you
appeal to his instinct to compete.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #35
He’ll let a woman who becomes his doormat
pay for dinner on the first couple of dates,
but he wouldn’t think of it with his dreamgirl.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #36
The token power position is for public display, but
the true power position is for private viewing only.
And this is the only one that matters.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #37
If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you
and he’ll want to give you the world.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #38
When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything,
she gets stuck doing everything.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #39
Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #40
Talking about the “relationship” too much
takes away the element of the “unknown”
and thus the mystery.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #41
Men respect women who communicate
in a succinct way, because it’s the language
men use to talk to one another.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #42
When you are always HAPPY;
And he is always free to GO;
He feels LUCKY.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #43
If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted,
you’ll create a void. Then, to replace what
you give up, you’ll start to expect and
need more from your partner.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #44
Most women are starving to receive something from a man
that they need to give to themselves.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #45
A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes
when he can’t pull her away from her life,
because she is content with her life.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #46
The second a woman works overtime to
make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the
standard of that relationship.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #47
You jump through hoops any time you
repeatedly make it very obvious you’re
giving your “all.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #48
You have to keep from being sucked down into
quicksand. Unless you maintain control over
yourself, the relationship is doomed.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #49
Jumping through hoops often has a
negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity
to have his cake and eat it, too.
But when you stay just outside his reach,
he’ll stay on his best behavior.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #50
The nice girl gives away too much of herself
when pleasing him regularly becomes more
important than pleasing herself.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #51
The relationship may not be right for you
if you find yourself jumping through hoops.
When something is right, it will feel
easier and much more effortless.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #52
When you nag, he tunes you out.
But when you speak with your actions,
But when you speak with your actions,
he pays attention.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #53
When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for
reassurance that she is still “right there.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #54
When the routine becomes predictable, he’s more
likely to give you the same type of love he had
for his mother—and the odds that he will
take you for granted increase.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #55
Negative attention is still attention.
It lets a man know that he has you—
right where he wants you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #56
When you treat him casually as though
he’s a friend, he’ll come your way.
Because he wants things to be romantic,
but he also wants to be the pursuer.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #57
A little distance combined with the
appearance of self-control makes him
nervous that he may be losing you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #58
A man takes a woman for granted
when he’s interested, but will no
longer go out of his way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #59
When you nag, you become the problem,
and he deals with it by tuning you out.
But when you don’t nag,
he deals with the problem.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #60
If you take his chores away from him
and praise someone else for doing it,
he’ll want his chores back.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #61
When you nag, he sees weakness.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #62
He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #63
In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly
aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #64
He’ll forget what he has in you . . . unless you remind him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #65
Many women talk a lot out of nervousness—
which is something that men will often
perceive as insecurity.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #66
Talking about feelings to a man will
feel like work. When he’s with a woman,
he wants it to feel like fun.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #67
Forcing him to talk about feelings all the
time will not only make you seem needy,
it will eventually make him lose respect.
And when he loses respect, he’ll pay
even less attention to your feelings.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #68
In the beginning, the only thing you need
to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming
around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide
his emotions for so long.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #69
Men treat women the way they treat other men.
They “play it cool” because they don’t want to
appear weak or desperate.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #70
The element of surprise both inside and
outside of the bedroom is important to men,
and it adds to the excitement.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #71
Don’t always do the same thing over and over
in the bedroom. Vary it so that it doesn’t
become a predictable routine.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #72
Most men tend to disrespect a woman who appears to be too
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #73
Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself
or speak your mind. It will not only earn his
respect, in some cases it will even turn him on.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #74
Men often automatically assume that a bitchier
woman will be more assertive in bed, and
that a nice girl will be more timid.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #75
When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll
go out of his way and think nothing of it.
He’ll do things for this woman he wouldn’t
have done for anyone else.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #76
He’ll never respect you as being able to
hold your own unless you can stand on
your own two feet financially.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #77
You have to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then
you will keep his respect.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #78
Your pink slip is maintained when you can stand on your own
—with him or without him. He should never feel that you are
completely at his mercy.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #79
When a man views a woman as a “little girl”
or a sister he has to take care of, the
passion diminishes. He doesn’t want to
make love to his sister.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #80
The ability to choose how you want to live,
and the ability to choose how you want to be
treated are the two things that give you more
power than any material object ever will.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #81
In a relationship of any kind, if one person
feels the other person isn’t bringing anything
to the table, he or she will begin
to disrespect that person.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #82
Financial neediness is no different than
emotional neediness; in both instances,
he can still get the feeling that he has a
100 percent hold on you.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #83
Regardless of how pretty a woman is,
looks alone will not sustain his respect.
Appearance may pull him in, but it is your
independence that will keep him turned on.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #84
When a man is very consumed with not
being taken advantage of, this is a sign
that he’s “on the take.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #85
People will show you they have self-respect
simply by virtue of the fact that they want to
carry their own weight.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #86
The more independent you are of him, the more interested he
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #87
If you make it too obvious that you’re excited
to get something, some people will be tempted
to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #88
When you alter the routine, your not being
there is what will make him come around.
Men don’t respond to words. What they
respond to is no contact.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #89
Don’t give a reward for bad behavior.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #90
He simply won’t respect a woman who
automatically goes into overdrive
to please him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #91
If he doesn’t give you a time, you don’t have a date.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #92
Often the best way to adjust or fix the problem
is by not letting him know it’s being fixed.
When you alter your availability or
change a predictable routine, it will
mentally pull him back in.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #93
Once you start laughing, you start healing.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #94
You can get away with saying much more with humor than
you can with a straight face.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #95
A man feels he’s won, or conquered a woman,
when she eats out of the palm of his hand.
At which point, he begins to get bored.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #96
The tension that arises with a slightly
bitchy woman gives a subtle feeling
of danger to a man. He feels slightly
unsure because she is never in
the palm of his hand.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #97
A “yes” woman who gives too much sends
the impression that she believes in the man
more than she believes in herself.
Men view this as weakness not kindness.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #98
Be an independent thinker at all times,
and ignore anyone who attempts to define
and ignore anyone who attempts to define
you in a limiting way.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #99
Truly powerful people don’t explain why
they want respect. They simply don’t engage
someone who doesn’t give it to them.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #100
The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
All my anger is sadness,a mask that I hide behind .sometimes I can’t express my sadness so I get angry instead.
I have that most irritating case of Deja Vu which is I feel like I have seen your face before somewhere else? Some ppl faces sound so familiar to me becoz i have already seen them before but where that’s the part i can’t remember precisely
I forget names and incidents but i never forget faces and my mind keeps poking me and getting on my nerves until i remember
It seems weird but i don’t know why most of the time i only remember faces and while watching movies it drives me crazy when i can’t remember where have i seen that actor’s face before.