Don’t fall in Love

Okay here’s the deal love sucks .it’s sweet and everything but it sucks becoz  when u fall in love with someone ,u hand over ur heart to that person and it’s over.forget it ,they got the remote control and they make u feel all these sweet and terrible feelings at the same time : missing ,longing,thinking ,jealousy and obsession to name a few. That’s the sucky part that u have totally no control over how u feel anymore and for a control freak like me ,that’s terrible!!! 
And the other thing is u don’t know if the person who u fall in love with is wroth all the trouble or not.i mean he or she could be an asshole or freak or just not ur type or for whatever reason so why take such a big risk!!!
But u could say that the person u fall in love with is awesome and the one and he or she isn’t like anybody u have ever known but u have to take into ur consideration that love is emotion that blinds our judgment completely .we become no longer rational and as we say “ur beloved will swallow for u stones” it means that they could see all ur faults and yet overlook them as if it’s nothing!!
But seriously the most important part is :r u sure that u gonna be with this person forever? R u sure that this relationship could work in the first place?!!!
We r in the real world hello!! wake up!! while we could love each other like crazy and can’t imagine living without each other but the truth is there’s something called “circumstances” that gets in the way .you could fight the circumstances or try to get over it but sometimes u find urself fighting alone while the other person isn’t ready or willing to make compromises to make the relationship work.
And the next thing u know you find urself crying ur eyes out becoz it just didn’t work out and you realize how foolish u was !!!
It’s not ur fault alone ,don’t beat urself up ,it always takes two persons to make a relationship work and if that other person isn’t there for u or willing to make it work then with the hell to it!!
Didn’t I tell you that love could suck the life out of u and leave u with totally nothing!!!
Or the worst u could be left with “Memories” ugh don’t get me started on that .
So it’s better to be alone and wait for The right person to come along who is ready to commit from the beginning ,wait wait don’t fall yet ,be sure that it gonna be forever and there’s a ring on ur hand and u r happily married and there r kids running around the house .now u know that he or she is trapped and they will stay whether they like it or not 😀
Yeah I like it the old-fashioned way 😛
U choose to fall or not ,it’s up to u but don’t listen to ppl who tell u that u just fall and u totally have no control over that becoz love like everything else is a mental decision u take and u choose to let ur heart go or not and my sincere advice to u :don’t fall and choose wisely 🙂

Before Midnight (My fav Quotes)

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Natalia: Like sunlight, sunset, we appear, we disappear. We are so important to some, but we are just passing through.

 

Jesse: I am giving you my whole life ok? I got nothing larger to give, I’m not giving it to anybody else. If you’re looking for permission to disqualify me, I’m not gonna give it to you. Ok? I love you. And I’m not in conflict about it. Okay? But if what you want is like a laundry list of all the things that piss me off, I can give it to you.

Celine: Yeah, I want to hear.

Jesse: Okay well, number 1, you’re fucking nuts! You are. Good luck! Find somebody else to put up with your shit for more than like 6 months okay? But I, accept the whole package, the crazy and the brilliant. I know you’re not gonna change and I don’t want you to. It’s called accepting you for being you. 

Jesse: You’re just like the little girls and everybody else. You wanna live inside some fairy tale. I’m just trying to make things better. I tell you that I love you unconditionally, I tell you that you’re beautiful, I tell you that your ass looks great when you’re 80. I try to make you laugh.

Celine: Ok.

Jesse: All right, I put up with plenty of your shit. And if you think I’m just some dog who’s gonna keep coming back, then you’re wrong. But if you want true love, then this is it. This is real life. It’s not perfect, but it’s real. And if you can’t see it, then you’re blind, all right, and I give up.