“You can’t have a better tomorrow if you’re thinking about yesterday.” ~ Charles Kettering, Inventor
To laugh is to risk appearing the fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk failure. But risks must be taken. Because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. If you risk nothing and do nothing, you dull your spirit. You may avoid suffering and sorrow, but you cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, and live.
“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.”L.B
There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:
This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel,
love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me. . . or leave me.
Accept me–or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person,
just because I don’t fit your idea of who I should be and don’t try to change
me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad–
you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.
Be the last one to shout ,let them all shout might get angry when everyone is shouting at u ,placing all the blame at u but Remember keep that anger inside and remain silent ,u don’t have to justify everything ,if u wanna defend urself ,do that quietly ,be cool ,ppl when angry say the most stupid stuff and take the wrong decisions !!so avoid talking or taking action while angry ,best thing to do is to have inner conversation with urself ,to talk it out about everything that bothers u
ppl forget what they said when they were angry after while but there is someone who won’t forget ,the one who get hurt ,don’t do that .don’t be responsible for someone else’s pain.it’s not good ,actually it’s awful !!