Monthly Archives: January 2015

عن الندم والايمان

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اصعب حاجة فى الدنيا انك تندم ندم عمرك على غلطة عملتها بجهل منك و يبقى نفسك ترجع الزمن لورا عشان تغيرها يمكن تقدر تصلحها
غلطة واحدة بس عملتها لو مكنتش عملتها كانت حياتك اتغيرت 180 درجة بس يفيد بايه الندم اهم حاجة ان احنا نتعلم من اخطانا بس ديما ترجع تسال نفسك بس لو كان فعلا اللى بتمناه حصل كان حياتى هيبقى شكلها ايه !
يمكن الشيطان بيلعب فى دماغنا و بيحاول يحبطنا و يوصلك لطريق مسدود و يقولك خلاص حياتك انتهت مش المفروض ان احنا نستستلم بسهولة و نياس من روح الله
كل ما تحس خلاص انها قفلت معاك قوى قول يا رب ربنا كبير و قادر على كل شىء
فمهما تكون صعبة وبالنسبة لك حاجة مستحيلة ربنا يقدر يقولها بس كن فيكون و تتحقق مفيش مستحيل مع ربنا طول ما ايمانا اقوى من اى شىء يقف فى طريقنا هنعدى
لو دعيت من قلبك و سبتها على الله ربنا عمره ما هيخذلك لانه اصلا بيحبك وعايزاك ديما مبسوط
بس لازم تغير حاجة جواك عشان ربنا يساعدك
ربنا مش هيغير اللى انت فيه غير لما تغير اللى جواك الافكار السلبية و المعتقدات المحبطة اللى مصدقها هى اللى ملخبطة حياتك كل ما تحاول تتطلع لقدام ترجع لورا عشان جواك فكرة غلط لازم تعملها ديليت و تمسحها خالص و تحط بدلها فكرة ايجابية تصدقها
فصبر جميل و الصبر هو اكتر حاجة هتتحاجها فى حياتك عشان تعدى صعوبات كتير لانك لو مصبرتش هتغلط و هترجع تندم تانى و هتفضل فى الدايرة المغلقة دى كتير
اسال نفسك هو انت ايه اللى مصدقه عن نفسك و عن حياتك اللى وصلك للطريق ده
اول ما تغير اللى جوا كل اللى برا هيتغير و من غير ما تتعب نفسك
هى حياة واحدة ربنا ادهلك حاول تعشها صح اقرا كتير و دور على الاجابات جواك اكيد هتوصل

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Why am I still single?

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What People say to me

That i am not getting any younger (i am 25 btw)
My parents wont live forever
That i am wasting too many good chances
That i will end up Alone without anyone even asking about me
Take who love u not the one u love
Finical security is a good reason to get married to anyone

So i am supposed to accept anyone no matter who i feel becoz
If you passed thirty ,you are no longer good as human being for marriage or anything for that matter ,that the train passed you sorry but for men until they can catch the train anytime,they can get married at any age ,what a disgusting double standards!!!

I know my parents wont live forever neither am i ,so should i ruin the rest of my life just for fear of being alone?!
To be honest ,no one knows who gonna die first : me or them!
Even if i get married and have children ,they will grow up someday and get married and leave me alone ,i mean there are no guarantees in life ,at some point in your life you will be alone.My point is you could end up alone whether you are married or not!

From people’s perspective, anyone seems like a good catch no matter who,and we never run out of chances ,life is full of endless possibilities.when people believe they only got one shot at life ,those are the only people who lose and fail!

Again the fear of loneliness ,really how come you should be motived by fear?! Should my only motivation to get married is to avoid loneliness ? Seriously?! I could end up with the wrong person and feel even lonelier than ever! If you cant stand being alone with yourself for a while ,how could you expect anyone to fill that emptiness in your soul? It is only when we have zero fears that we could have healthy marriage that based on love and understanding,not fear!

Take who love you ,not the one you love
This theory is laughable and selfish ,it tells you ,you should only care about yourself to be loved ,to receive love only but not give it to anyone becoz you are the only one who matters after all!! If love isnt mutual ,it is useless and you call it anything but definitely not love!

Money,money ,it’s all about money money ! I luv this song and it seems that is only what we care about now! I luv money but money cant buy you happiness ,you can live in a palace and feel miserable like something missing in your life ,you cant put a price tag on everything!

I want to find the one and get married and have kids like every woman out there but i don’t want to settle for anyone to get married,i wanna find my soulmate first and everything will come next .to feel that deep connection or the spark with someone is what i really care about most more than anything

Should i settle or not?
Should i sacrifice my happiness for the sake of other ppl just to please them!!
I am confused , i don’t want fight anymore
I would rather end up alone than settle for anyone .no wonder divorce rates are increasing

Please leave comment and tell me your honest perspective on this issue ,would you rather settle for anyone just to get married or wait until you find the one no matter how long it takes? And how will you handle the pressure from your parents ,friends and society if you choose to stick to your standards?

When you are about to give up!

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at times in my life i felt like a total failure and i was devastated but i have made a decision to turn my life around .i promised myself that i will do whatever i can to remove this word from my life .even if i have to struggle at first for a while but i was determined to be a success at whatever i do ,u cant succeed while caring about what others think of u ,forget about ppl .ppl wont stop talking about u and judging u anyway and but u have to prove something to urself ,u have to love urself enough that u wont let anything or any negative voice in ur head to stop u from getting what you really want .you have to stand up after every fall and say i will try one more time ,i can make it .
You have to find a motivation for your life ,you have to set a goal to reach and work toward it every single day becoz humans beings r like this we r motivated by what we desire most and let ur desire be ur fuel to work harder ,to keep trying ,to just take it one day at a time
I tried today ,i hated it, what about tomorrow i could like it if i just change my thoughts and beliefs
You have to face every day with new attitude ,today is courage
Tomorrow is persistence
We have good days and bad days but it is never a bad life
We all have ups and downs but don’t let your “downs ” drag you down
Keep saying to urself : i can do this ,i can do this,i can do this
If others succeeded then why can’t i? Others are not better than you
May be more determined or driven or desperate yes even desperation could be a motivation but you have to find a positive outlook and to embrace life as it is .we all wish if life were easier and it can be when you understand that it is a game and we have to play it and sometimes we win,sometimes we lose but we should never ever stop playing or give up!