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What is the soul?


What is the Soul?

The Soul is the divine masculine and feminine energies balanced together 

This means that soul is neutral and genderless

The soul is the manifestation of anything becoz anything to manifest ,it needs to be neutral

This is what happens when we let go of something we want so bad ,we become neutral ,balanced and that thing we want ,its energy becomes neutral to us that’s why we attract it into our lives becoz whether we have that thing or not ,it’s okay with us!!

“Verily, the case of Jesus is as the case of Adam in the sight of Allâh. He fashioned him out of dust, then He said to him,`Be’, and he came to be”

There are only two people in the history of humankind who were created without a marriage ,

Adam and Jesus (peace be upon them)!

For Adam is the One Soul in manifestation ,it means that Adam are both the masculine and the feminine energy inside one body so for “physical” marriage to happen ,the feminine has to be extracted from him and that’s how Eve was created So now a “physical” marriage can happen becoz the one soul needs its polarity whether masculine or feminine for marriage to happen ,Adam and Eve were twin souls!

Adam is the masculine side and Eve the feminine side of the one soul!

In the case of Jesus (peace be upon him) he is also the manifestation of the one soul like Adam were at the time of creation so Jesus can never get married becoz he is already One whole Soul ,he got both the feminine and masculine inside of him!

 Jesus (peace upon him) is the only prophet who was supported by the power of the soul,that’s why he could heal and create life by the permission of God .The One Soul can manifest anything becoz it got the power of the divine ,that energetic balance inside ,the neutral state becoz it’s an order of manifestation from God. 

The soul means instant manifestation of anything ,it’s the order “Be” that God use to create.So the soul is the energetic power of creation.The soul is what manifests energy into matter 

That’s how the prophet Jesus (peace be upon him) used to create ,he used the power of the soul becoz he was supported by that power since his magical birth.

“And (remember) her who guarded her chastity: We breathed into her of Our spirit, and We made her and her son a sign for all peoples.”

“We gave Jesus the son of Mary Clear (Signs) and strengthened him with the holy spirit”

 “Christ Jesus the son of Mary was (no more than) a messenger of Allah, and His Word, which He bestowed on Mary, and a spirit proceeding from Him: so believe in Allah and His messengers.”

So the prophet Jesus (peace be upon him) was the word “Be” that God use to create ,the Soul,the order.

Prophet jesus (peace be upon him) was the manifestation of the one soul in a human body,that’s why he had the gifts of creation ,manifestation and healing.

So it’s the power of the soul that God supported him with ,”The power of creation and instant manifestation”

(And when he came as a Messenger to the children of Israel, he said,) “I have come to you with a clear Sign from your Lord: in your very presence, I make the likeness of a bird out of clay and breathe into it and it becomes, by God’s Command, a bird. I heal those born blind and the lepers and I bring to life the dead by God’s Command: I inform you of what you eat and what you store up in your houses. Surely there is a great Sign for you in all this, if you have a mind to believe. 45 And I have come to confirm those teachings of the Guidance of the Torah which are intact in my time. 46 Lo! I have come with a clear Sign from your Lord; 47 so fear God and obey me. Indeed God is my Lord, and also your Lord; therefore worship Him alone: that is the straight way.”48 Quran 3:49-51 

God says in the Qur’an “Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, “be”, and it is!”

The soul is an order from God ,it means the manifestation of everything that God want it to happen!

When God wants something to “Be” ,it comes into “being” 

That being,, instant manifestation and order is the Soul.

So for anything to Go from being an energy into physical being ,It needs Soul “balance of masculine and feminine energies which lead to Manifestation” 

The breath of soul that God gave us Adam (peace be upon him) is What makes us alive ,manifesting physically as humans while in fact we are souls .That manifestation into the physical is becoz we have a Soul inside of us .so when we die ,the soul leaves the body becoz it is what keeps us alive!

That’s what I reached to conclusion after searching for what the word “Soul” means

It could mean more than that or it could mean something completely different but as a human I’m trying my best to understand the secrets of this world ,,there are many secrets we still don’t know ,God only knows best 🙂

Why am I still single?


What People say to me

That i am not getting any younger (i am 25 btw)
My parents wont live forever
That i am wasting too many good chances
That i will end up Alone without anyone even asking about me
Take who love u not the one u love
Finical security is a good reason to get married to anyone

So i am supposed to accept anyone no matter who i feel becoz
If you passed thirty ,you are no longer good as human being for marriage or anything for that matter ,that the train passed you sorry but for men until they can catch the train anytime,they can get married at any age ,what a disgusting double standards!!!

I know my parents wont live forever neither am i ,so should i ruin the rest of my life just for fear of being alone?!
To be honest ,no one knows who gonna die first : me or them!
Even if i get married and have children ,they will grow up someday and get married and leave me alone ,i mean there are no guarantees in life ,at some point in your life you will be alone.My point is you could end up alone whether you are married or not!

From people’s perspective, anyone seems like a good catch no matter who,and we never run out of chances ,life is full of endless possibilities.when people believe they only got one shot at life ,those are the only people who lose and fail!

Again the fear of loneliness ,really how come you should be motived by fear?! Should my only motivation to get married is to avoid loneliness ? Seriously?! I could end up with the wrong person and feel even lonelier than ever! If you cant stand being alone with yourself for a while ,how could you expect anyone to fill that emptiness in your soul? It is only when we have zero fears that we could have healthy marriage that based on love and understanding,not fear!

Take who love you ,not the one you love
This theory is laughable and selfish ,it tells you ,you should only care about yourself to be loved ,to receive love only but not give it to anyone becoz you are the only one who matters after all!! If love isnt mutual ,it is useless and you call it anything but definitely not love!

Money,money ,it’s all about money money ! I luv this song and it seems that is only what we care about now! I luv money but money cant buy you happiness ,you can live in a palace and feel miserable like something missing in your life ,you cant put a price tag on everything!

I want to find the one and get married and have kids like every woman out there but i don’t want to settle for anyone to get married,i wanna find my soulmate first and everything will come next .to feel that deep connection or the spark with someone is what i really care about most more than anything

Should i settle or not?
Should i sacrifice my happiness for the sake of other ppl just to please them!!
I am confused , i don’t want fight anymore
I would rather end up alone than settle for anyone .no wonder divorce rates are increasing

Please leave comment and tell me your honest perspective on this issue ,would you rather settle for anyone just to get married or wait until you find the one no matter how long it takes? And how will you handle the pressure from your parents ,friends and society if you choose to stick to your standards?

Don’t fall in Love


Okay here’s the deal love sucks .it’s sweet and everything but it sucks becoz  when u fall in love with someone ,u hand over ur heart to that person and it’s over.forget it ,they got the remote control and they make u feel all these sweet and terrible feelings at the same time : missing ,longing,thinking ,jealousy and obsession to name a few. That’s the sucky part that u have totally no control over how u feel anymore and for a control freak like me ,that’s terrible!!! 
And the other thing is u don’t know if the person who u fall in love with is wroth all the trouble or not.i mean he or she could be an asshole or freak or just not ur type or for whatever reason so why take such a big risk!!!
But u could say that the person u fall in love with is awesome and the one and he or she isn’t like anybody u have ever known but u have to take into ur consideration that love is emotion that blinds our judgment completely .we become no longer rational and as we say “ur beloved will swallow for u stones” it means that they could see all ur faults and yet overlook them as if it’s nothing!!
But seriously the most important part is :r u sure that u gonna be with this person forever? R u sure that this relationship could work in the first place?!!!
We r in the real world hello!! wake up!! while we could love each other like crazy and can’t imagine living without each other but the truth is there’s something called “circumstances” that gets in the way .you could fight the circumstances or try to get over it but sometimes u find urself fighting alone while the other person isn’t ready or willing to make compromises to make the relationship work.
And the next thing u know you find urself crying ur eyes out becoz it just didn’t work out and you realize how foolish u was !!!
It’s not ur fault alone ,don’t beat urself up ,it always takes two persons to make a relationship work and if that other person isn’t there for u or willing to make it work then with the hell to it!!
Didn’t I tell you that love could suck the life out of u and leave u with totally nothing!!!
Or the worst u could be left with “Memories” ugh don’t get me started on that .
So it’s better to be alone and wait for The right person to come along who is ready to commit from the beginning ,wait wait don’t fall yet ,be sure that it gonna be forever and there’s a ring on ur hand and u r happily married and there r kids running around the house .now u know that he or she is trapped and they will stay whether they like it or not 😀
Yeah I like it the old-fashioned way 😛
U choose to fall or not ,it’s up to u but don’t listen to ppl who tell u that u just fall and u totally have no control over that becoz love like everything else is a mental decision u take and u choose to let ur heart go or not and my sincere advice to u :don’t fall and choose wisely 🙂