People don’t know shit
People don’t understand what you are going through no matter how hard you try to explain!
People don’t know how you feel no matter how much eloquent or articulate when u describe this feeling becoz feelings is to be felt not described or talked about!
People don’t understand why you are doing this no matter how many good reasons you give them for doing such and such!!
People don’t understand your failure although sometimes your failure means you are trying .it happens, it’s not a big deal!
People don’t understand and sometimes don’t even tolerate that you are different, I mean different in any way but they just wanna deal with people who are exact copies from each other ,talk ,walk and even dress in the same way as them
People judge you for how you look although we all know looks are deceiving!
People will give you advice based on their experiences and knowledge and expect you to follow them becoz simply they think or assume they know better!
People don’t like introverts although the majority of geniuses were introverts! This is a fact ,read the book “Quiet: in a world that can’t stop talking”
People will tell you it’s done this way or it’s just like that without even trying questioning why? And why not doing it differently?
People will try to convince you or sometimes even push you to take some serious decisions in your life like marriage or career or travel as if they know-it-all
people will call you stupid because you just don’t agree with them on some trivial political issues
people don’t know what’s wrong or right ,they just tell you based on their perspective or social conventions but the way you feel that it’s wrong or right in your heart ,that;s what really matter.
people will hurt you with words with a good intention or justification in their fucking minds like (a) it’s to motivate you to do something ,(b)it’s so funny, don’t take it personally ,(c) I didn’t mean to hurt you but ,(d) it’s true though you are such and such ,you totally deserve it .
People will not leave you alone or Let you be who you are without interference becoz some people believe that it’s their mission in life to change everyone and everything around them .why can’t we just live and let live?
When someone need your advice or ask for it ,then give it but don’t try to act like you know it all ,it’s really annoying .plus you can’t understand or comprehend all dimensions of a problem or situation someone is facing ,it’s usually complicated especially when it is involving emotions and all that stuff
Don’t listen to people .really and it’s not an advice ,I’m just writing this for myself and I’m telling myself Don’t listen to people Mai becoz seriously I had Enough.
Don’t listen to people who try to judge you, patronize you or put you down for anything you have ever done
Don’t listen to people who belittle you or make you feel bad in any way whatsoever
It’s when we stopped listening to ourselves and talked to people about our problems that we got really lost and confused .we were like is it really right or wrong? we don’t know the difference between the two anymore becoz we always waiting to see what other people think!
Listen to your inner voice
Listen to your intuition
Trust you gut feeling
Follow your heart
Be who you are
Don’t give a shit
what other people think
Believe in yourself
Always see if something make you feel good or not ,when it’s right ,it’s good and it feels good
when it’s wrong ,it feels bad and it’s really that simple .
You are the only one who knows what’s the best for you even if people try to tell you otherwise ,don’t believe them.You are the only one who knows what’s good and bad for you .I wanna finish this by writing this Quote from a book I read recently called the “Gifts of imperfections”
“Yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable and sometimes afraid, but that doesn’t change the truth that I am also brave and worthy of love and belonging.”