I hate hypricosy ,I can’t pretend to Like someone I really don’t like just for the sake of being nice although I would never be mean to someone on purpose just becoz I dont like them but I can’t be nice either ,I act distant ,cold and aloof and try my hardest to stay away from any kind of interaction that could lead to faking who I am or how I act!
I don’t like “Shoulds” and I wont abide to the societal norm of etiquette or whatever
I don’t like the fake smiles,the flattery ,the fake compliments ,acting nice becoz you are supposed to be nice!
I hate Nice but that doesn’t mean I like rude Either but for me ,Nice means Fake becoz Most of the people I know who are Nice are really Fake ,they hide who they really are ,their real thoughts and feelings and their real motivations becoz it’s not appropriate to express them!
That’s why I love sincerity and brutal honesty no matter what and you gotta love sincere people even if they offend you becoz they are true to who they are and they are not afraid of showing it!
That’s why we live in a society of “Fake nice people “,people who won’t tell you the truth to your face but would gossip behind your back !
People who would lie to you lest they offend your feelings,as if finding out their lie wouldn’t!
People who smile when they actually want to cry ,this is fakeness too
People who hide their anger and look peaceful while they are burning inside ,fakeness again!
Friends who would ask about you only when they want something and suddenly they seem like they really missed you or knew you existed!!
When you say something and it offends someone ,you swear it’s not what you meant although you know deep down it’s the truth but you are lying to be nice!
When someone asks you your sincere opinion and you have to beat around the bush and say anything but the truth for the sake of being Nice!!
Even trying to living up to people’s expectations of you is Fake!
The same is true about manipulation ,using any tactic to avoid telling the truth is fakness!
I’m allergic to fake nice people ,people who won’t show their true colors ,the pleasers who won’t express their true thoughts and feelings lest they offend someone or for the fear of being judged!
Dr.Seuss said it best” Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind”
Be who you are ,the good ,the bad and the ugly ,expose yourself ,express the true You ,say what you mean and mean what you say ,tell on yourself ,own your worst negative traits and don’t be ashamed to say I’m such and such even if it is a negative trait like being lazy ,impatient or whatever ,this is part of who you and while you can work on yourself to improve but denying who you are or living in delusion won’t make you aware that there is something that needs to be changed to start with! ,don’t disown any trait you got ,own it and be You!
So Yes I don’t like Fake Nice and unless it’s Sincere Nice I won’t buy it and Never will!
So Folks, please be Sincere for the love of God 🙂