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Memorizing The Facts!


There are 3 jobs i wanted and dreamed to become :Being detective,Writer and/or psychiatrist !
I’m Like any normal girl ,I lived in Egypt ,went to public school ,then college and get the certificate that i can just hang on the wall or soak it in the water then drink its water .In other words ,it’s so useless !!
I remember Adel Amam’s famous Quote in one of his plays ‘’de bald bat3et shahdat” “it’s a country that like certificates” and it’s so true ,we judge others status or education by their certificates instead of their actual knowledge while if we see the most successful people ,we would find most of them didn’t complete their studies or dropped out of school like Bill gates but they chased their passions and learn through self-study and get what they wanted and become successful !
tell me how many people who really Study something because they are interested in it or because they Luv it and want to learn more about it??? you can count these people on the fingers of one hand. Most of the students think of just passing the exams and their relationship with studying and books end there with the finals .They broke up becoz this relationship isn’t based on true love but rather the need to get something done and that’s it!!

since i was a little kid ,I was taught to memorize ,Learn everything by heart even in math or science ,we would study Facts ,facts and nothing but facts ,it’s Like “hard times” in dickens novel !!
and when I graduated I faced the hard and harsh reality ,No jobs!
All these years i wasted in studying and then Nothing! Yeah ,our government teaches us to be independent ,Go and find a job for yourself!
Most of the students in our beloved Country Lost faith in Learning.Let me tell you why
first ,you teach them from childhood like 5 or 6 to memorize ,and when these little curious creatures start to ask questions ,they got suppressed becoz who are you to question the teacher? or it’s just like that “haya kda” ,you will know later when you grow up!!

then when the children grow up ,they go to elementary school and they study more facts for 3 years .following that The Nightmare ,The horror which is called “High School” or as we call it in Egypt “ el thanwya el 3amma” and since it starts ,you find your parents putting so much pressure on you to study and study and never leave the book becoz your whole life and future depends on how high your score in the exams and that the more you memorize ,the better your chances of getting high grade and getting to the college you dream of or ironically the one your parents want !!

after leaving High school with its ups and downs ,you find the college world not much different but more years you spend in memorizing and that’s true for all the colleges like Law ,arts ,education ,etc etc .After you graduate ,you find that you wasted most of your years memorizing facts that you never use in real life or don’t benefit you in any practical way!
For God sake,Stop Memorizing!! understand why the hell you are doing this? what’s the point? if we are gonna change the future ,we must think of a creative way of doing things !
I Lost faith in the education system and come to embrace the self-study approach ,Study what you love, forget about “Study” ,that very word makes you feel like you gonna just work hard to get a high score on an exam .READ ,EXPlore,Discover ,Be curious about the world and USE your Brain to think about stuff that interest you .IF we have one life ,at least spend it Doing Something you actually Love and passionate about,anything else is just waste of time,money and effort and really doesn’t matter!

Basic Self-healing principles


Excerpt from the book “Letting go :The pathway to surrender”

“We will delineate the basic principles that facilitated the process of self-healing. In doing this, there will be a review of some of the material we have already covered, so as to bring it together into an integrated overall experience. We will start with the basic working concepts:
• A thought is a “thing.” It has energy and form.

• The mind with its thoughts and feelings controls the body; therefore, to heal the body, thoughts and feelings need to be changed.

• What is held in mind tends to express itself through the body.

• The body is not the real self; it is like a puppet controlled by the mind.

• Beliefs that are unconscious can manifest as illness, even though there is no memory of the underlying beliefs.

• An illness tends to result from suppressed and repressed negative emotions, plus a thought that gives it a specific form (i.e., consciously or unconsciously, one particular illness is chosen rather than another).”
“Thoughts are caused by suppressed and repressed feelings. When a feeling is let go, thousands or even millions of thoughts that were activated by that feeling disappear.

• Although a specific belief can be cancelled and energy to it can be refused, it is generally a waste of time to try to change thinking itself.

• We surrender a feeling by allowing it be there without condemning, judging, or resisting it. We simply look at it, observe it, and allow it to be felt without trying to modify it. With the willingness to relinquish a feeling, it will run out in due time.

• A strong feeling may recur, which means there is more of it to be recognized and surrendered.

• In order to surrender a feeling, sometimes it is necessary to start by relinquishing the feeling that is there about the particular emotion (e.g., guilt that “I shouldn’t have this feeling”).

• In order to relinquish a feeling, sometimes it is necessary to acknowledge and let go of the underlying payoff of it (e.g., the “thrill” of anger and the “juice” of sympathy from being a helpless victim).”
“Feelings are not the real self. Whereas feelings are programs that come and go, the real inner Self always stays the same; therefore, it is necessary to stop identifying transient feelings as yourself.

• Ignore thoughts. They are merely endless rationalizations of inner feelings.

• No matter what is going on in life, keep the steadfast intention to surrender negative feelings as they arise.

• Make a decision that freedom is more desirable than having a negative feeling.”
“• Choose to surrender negative feelings rather than express them.

• Surrender resistance to and skepticism about positive feelings.

• Relinquish negative feelings but share positive ones.

• Notice that letting go is accompanied by a subtle, overall lighter feeling within yourself.

• Relinquishing a desire does not mean that you won’t get what you want. It merely clears the way for it to happen.

• Get it by “osmosis.” Put yourself in the aura of those who have what you want.

• “Like goes to like.” Associate with people who are using the same or similar motivation and who have the intention to expand their consciousness and to heal.”
“• Be aware that your inner state is known and transmitted. The people around you will intuit what you are feeling and thinking, even if you don’t verbalize it.

• Persistence pays off. Some symptoms or illnesses may disappear promptly; others may take months or years if the condition is very chronic.

• Let go of resisting the technique. Start the day with it. At the end of the day, take time out to relinquish any negative feelings left over from the day’s activities.

• You are only subject to what you hold in mind. You are only subject to a negative thought or belief if you consciously or unconsciously say that it applies to you.”
“• Stop giving the physical disorder a name; do not label it. A label is a whole program. Surrender what is actually felt, which are the sensations themselves. We cannot feel a disease. A disease is an abstract concept held in the mind. We cannot, for instance, feel “asthma.” It is helpful to ask, “What am I actually feeling?” Simply observe the physical sensations, such as, “Tightness in the chest, wheezing, a cough.” It is not possible, for example, to experience the thought, “I’m not getting enough air.” That is a fearful thought in the mind. It is a concept, a whole program called “asthma.” What is actually being experienced is a tension or a constriction in the throat or chest. The same principle goes for “ulcers” or any other disorder. We cannot feel “ulcers.” We feel a burning or piercing sensation. The word “ulcer” is a label and a program, and as soon as we use that word to label our experience, we identify ourselves with the whole “ulcer” program. Even the word “pain” is a program. In reality, we are feeling a specific body sensation. The process of self-healing goes more quickly when we let go of “labeling or giving a name to the various physical sensations.”

• The same is true with our feelings. Instead of putting labels and names on feelings, we can simply feel the feelings and let go of the energy behind them. It is not necessary to label a feeling “fear” in order to be aware of its energy and relinquish that energy.”

حوار مع صديقتى المثالية جدا


تحدثت بالأمس مع صديقتى و احتد النقاش بيننا حيث كانا نناقش قضية هامة تدور حوال هذا التساؤل :هل فساد الدولة نتجية لفساد الأفراد أم نتجية لفساد المنظومة الحاكمة من رئيس و حكومة؟

ترى صديقتى أنها نتجية لفساد الأفراد حيث ترى أن الالتزام الأخلاقى للأفراد و التزامهم بتعاليم دينهم هو العامل الرئيسى فى نجاح الدولة فقلت لها أن نظرتها مثالية جدا و أنها تحلم بالمدينة الفاضلة حيث يلتزم الجميع بالأخلاق والدين و هذا غير ما يحدث على أرض الواقع حيث تشكل هذه الفئة الملتزمة أخلاقيا و دينيا نسبة ضئيلة جدا لا تتعدى الواحد فى المئة

ويوجد كلا الناقضيين الملتزم جدا بالأخلاق و المنحرف جدا و الفاسد على الطرف الأخر و فى الوسط يقع معظم البشر الذى يخلطون عملا صالحا بآخر سىء فكيف تمثل حالات فردية نجاح الدولة!

هل يكفى التزام مليون شخص مثلا لنجاح دولة من ٩٠ مليون فرد؟!

لماذا ينجح كل العلماء الذى يسافرون للعمل فى الخارج بينما لا يحققوا مثل هذا النجاح فى الداخل؟!

كان رأيى الذى قلته لها ان نجاح اى دولة نتجية لتطبيق القانون و قوة و نزاهة من يحكمون هذه الدولة 

فمؤسسات الدولة هى العمود الفقرى الذى يتحكم فى باقى الدولة و لن تتكمن اى دولة من النهوض بدون هذا العمود الفقرى القوى

ضربت لى مثلا كيف ان الدول الأوروبية يلتزمون أخلاقيا منذ البداية نتجية للتربية السليمة التى تؤدى فى النهاية الى دولة ناجحة و متطورة

ذكرت لها نفس المثال انهم فى الغرب والدول الأوروبية لا يلتزمون فقط بالأخلاق لكن بالقانون الذى يشكل لهم الرادع الأكبر فهم حين يخطأون يعلمون أنهم سوف يحاسبوا 

حتى فى الدين الذى يجعلك تلتزم بقواعد الدين هى فكرة الثواب و العقاب حيث ان النفس البشرية اذا تركت لأهوائها فأنها بالتأكيد تنحرف

قد يلتزم البعض لتمسكه بالأخلاق أو الدين أو التربية لكن سؤالى لها كيف نجعل دولة من ملايين الأفراد تلتزم بالقواعد الصحيحة ؟!

قالت لى مجددا التربية و التمسك بالدين و الأخلاق المفترض ان يتمسك بهم الجميع للنهوض بالدولة حيث التزام كل فرد هو ما يحدد نجاح الدولة ككل قلت لها كل هذا جميل ولكن ما يحدث على أرض الواقع ان فى المجتمع الكثير من المنحرفين الفاسدين و النصابين و المجرمين ما الذى يجعل و يجبر كل هؤلاء على الألتزام بالأخلاق و الدين؟

فى رأيى شىء واحد فقط هو الالتزام بالقانون و الخوف من العقاب ،كل شىء آخر فى رأيى هو مجرد أفتراضات و نظرة فلسفية لما يجب أن يحدث أو يكون!

من رأى منكم فيلم جوليا روبرتس قصة الفيلم مأخوذة من قصة واقعية حدثت بالفعل ،فى الفيلم جوليا روبرتس تعمل فى مكتب محاماة و تقوم بالعمل فى قضية فساد شركة مياه حيث أدى تلوث المياه فى منطقة معينة فى انتشار العديد من الأمراض نحن هنا نتكلم عن مؤسسة من مؤسسات الدولة الحكومية قامت جوليا برفع قضية ضد شركة المياة بعد ما قدمت كل الأدلة التى تثبت تضرر الناس منها ونجحت فى أن تحصل للمتضررين على تعويض بملايين الدولارات 

هذا هو الفرق بينا و بينهم ببساطة ففى الغرب حتى أن كان يوجد فساد فيوجد قانون يحاكم من يخطأ ولا سيادة لأحد فوق هذا القانون لكن فى بلدنا توجد الآف القوانين لا يتم تفعيلها او تطبيقها او حتى معقابة من يقوم بكسرها بأى شكل !!

فلنبدأ من البداية فعندما أصحو من النوم ولا أجد ماء أو كهرباء فأنى ألعن الدولة التى أعيش فيها التى لا توفر للمواطن أبسط الخدمات!

عندما أمشى فى شارع غير ممهد و ملئ بالقمامة أشعر بالأشمئزاز و أكره البلد التى لاتهتم بالنظافة تقول لى صديقتى المفروض أن نتعلم الأنلقى نلقى القمامة فى الشارع أوكى أنا مش هرمى بس متأكدة أن فى مليون غيرى هيرموا زبالة و يلوثوا البيئة!

عندما أضيع أكثر من عشرين عاما من عمرى فى تعليم لا فائدة منه لا ينمى مهاراتى و لا يعدنى لسوق العمل و لا يطور شخصيتى فأنى أسأل نفسى ما فائدة كل ذلك و ما فائدة هذه الورقة التى تسمى الشهادة التى أستطيع أن أبلها و أشرب ميتها!

أين هى الدولة التى من المفروض أن توفر لى تعليم جيد و وظيفة بعد التخرج؟!

أنى ألعن هذه البلد آلاف المرات و أكره هذا النظام الفاشل من أعماقى!

عندما لا أجد وسيلة مواصلات آدمية 

عندما لا أجد هواء و ماء نظيف فكل شئ فى هذه البلد ملوث حتى الأفكار!!

أنها دولة فاشلة بكل المقاييس ولا يمكن لفرد أن يغير دولة بأكملها مهما التزام بالقواعد وكان مواطن مثالى من الدرجة الأولى 

الدولة هى نتجية من يحكمها و يديرها و من يسن القوانين و يعاقب كل من يخرج عن القانون مهما كان منصبه!

ومع ذلك أنا أؤمن جدا بمقولة غاندى “كن أنت التغيير الذى تريد أن تراه فى العالم” علينا أن نلتزم نعم فى حياتنا من أجل أنفسنا و من أجل حياة أفضل لنا و لغيرنا لكن المسؤلية الحقيقية تقع على الدولة التى يجب أن توفر كل سبل العيش الكريم لمواطنيها

أحيانا فساد الدولة يؤدى إلى فساد الأفراد فأنك حين ترى المنظمومة كلها فاسدة فما أسهل أن تبرر لنفسك أن هذا الفساد و الظلم لا يواجه الا بنفس درجة الفساد فلتجأ الى التحايل و الكذب و الخداع من أجل فقط أن تعيش فى وسط هذا الكم من العفن!

لا يوجد دولة ناجحة تعانى جميع مؤسساتها من الفشل من تعليم وصحة وقضاء و شرطة الخ 

فعندما يغيب العدل والقانون فى الدولة يصبح كل شئ فاسد ويؤدى بها فى النهاية إلى الأنهيار و السقوط

أين نحن من عمر بن الخطاب (رضى الله عنه )الذى بكى لأنه لم يمهد طريق لدابة فى العراق هذا هو الحاكم الحقيقى للدولة الناجحة الحاكم الذى يشعر بحجم المسؤلية على عاتقه و يفعل كل ما فى وسعه ليوفر كل سبل الراحة و الأمان لشعبه و حينها يلتزم الشعب من نفسه لأنه يرى القدوة و المثل و أيضا القانون الذى يضع الجميع تحت قاعدة واحدة من الألتزام 

فهناك دولة قوية و دولة مهلبية وطب احنا عارفين نفسنا 😀

The letting go experiment


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Currently I’m reading the book “Letting go : The pathway of surrender” and It’s about how to Let go of your attachments and desires ,how to let go of your emotions that bind you and keep you miserable .This book is really transforming and life-changing ,it puts everything in perspective I have to share this simple technique of Letting go becoz its results is mind-blowing 

Here’s an excerpt from the book

“Here was the initial experience with letting go of desire.

Personal goals were written down, followed by a letting go of the desire for them. It sounds paradoxical but that is the process: identify the goals and then let go of wanting them. One goal that had been held in mind for several years was an apartment in New York City, because work commitments required a lot of commuting and money spent on hotel rooms. A small apartment in the city—a so-called pied-à-terre—would be the economical solution. “Apartment in New York City” was written down as a goal. When utilizing this way of achieving goals, we include all of the details, as impossible as they may seem to the rational mind to achieve. So, the ideal apartment was detailed: reasonably priced, on Fifth Avenue in the 70s block, right next to an entrance to Central Park, at least eight or nine floors up and in the rear so that the street noise would be minimized, and not any bigger than about two and a half rooms.”

“The next day at work, it was busy as usual, with a big caseload, meetings, and patient visits. In between the meetings and patients, the feeling of wantingness for the apartment would be acknowledged and let go. And, as the day progressed, the apartment was actually forgotten. At 4:30 P.M., after the last patient, there was suddenly the impulse to drive into the city. Despite the fact that it was ostensibly rush hour, the road was clear and the drive took only half an hour. The car cruised to about 73rd and Lexington, pulling up to the nearest real estate office. Rather magically, there happened to be a parking space open right in front of the real estate office. The real estate officer, upon hearing the tongue-in-cheek announcement that an apartment on Fifth Avenue was desired, looked with surprise and said, “Well, you are certainly in luck! Exactly one hour ago we listed the only apartment for rent on all of Fifth Avenue, at 76th Street, on the ninth floor. It’s the rear apartment, two and a half rooms, and the rent is reasonable (rent-controlled at $500.00 a month). It has just been painted and you can move in any time.” So we walked over and viewed the apartment. It fit the description of the goal exactly. The lease was signed on the spot! Thus, within 24 hours of trying the letting go technique on a specific personal goal, the goal was a reality. It had been something that was almost impossible to find, and yet it happened exactly as pictured, effortlessly, and with no negative emotions. It was an easy and joyous experience.

This is not an unusual experience but a typical one, because in this case the desire was moderate and could, without much effort, be totally surrendered. By being totally surrendered, this means that it was okay if the apartment happened, and it was okay if it didn’t. Because of being totally surrendered, the impossible became possible, manifesting itself effortlessly and rapidly.”


when I read that I was skeptical,I thought this is too good to be true and only lucky people find things that easy but I was willing to give this experiment a try 

I wrote my goal down and I started with something small and it was buying clothes 

I wrote everything I wanted : the color,the price ,the size and the feelings It would make me feel when I wear it 

And then I let it go ,I said to myself wether I find it or not ,it’s okay with me and that’s the most important step of letting go and I went to a certain shop I know and lo and behold I found everything I wanted almost as I wrote it down ,it blew my mind .I said this technique really works!

And it’s so simple and anyone can do it ,choose any goal you want, write it down and be very specific ,write everything you want then let go of that goal ,say to yourself “it’s okay wether I have this thing or not ,it’s okay with me” .you also have to feel it deeply within you ,you can’t just say the words while your feelings are telling you something else .work on it and every time you feel attached to your goal ,let it go and voila it manifests in front of your eyes ,what a joyful experience 🙂

Life is meant to be easy ,just give it a try and see for yourself like I did.

مفاهيم العصر الجديد


 أهم حاجة لازم تعرفها أنك بتخلق حياتك بأفكارك ومشاعرك 

بمعنى أن الفكرة اللى جواك و مصدقها هى اللى هتشوفها حقيقة فى حياتك

لأن الكون ده كله عبارة عن طاقة و كل حاجة فى الكون طاقة و ليها تردد معين 

اينشتين قالك ايه أن e=mc2

يعنى الطاقة بتساوى المادة

فأنت أهم حاجة تعملها فى حياتك أنك تفكر أفكار أيجابية معظم الوقت لكن مش على طول طبعا 

لان ساعات هيجيلك وقت و هتحس بالخنقة و الضيق و القرف فلازم تعبر عن المشاعر دى و متكتمهاش 

أهم تانى حاجة لازم تفهمها فى الكون ده أنه ماشى بنظرية ال flow 

يعنىnon resistance يعنى بدون مقاومة لأى شئ سواء إيجابى أو سلبى 

مفيش حد بيقاوم حاجة فى الكون غير الأنسان و عشان كده أكتر مخلوق بيعانى على الأرض 

لو فهمنا أن الكون بكل ما فيه ماشى كده بتدبير ربنا و مش بيقاوم حاجة و على الفطرة

فبتلاقى كل حاجة سهلة و فيها سهولة

لكن أحنا بنقاوم المشاعر و الأفكار السلبية و كل ظرف احنا فيه شايفين انه مش لازم يحصل فتلاقى حياتنا معقدة جدا 

مش معنى ان لازم تفكر أفكار ايجابية انك تقاوم السلبى او السلبيات اللى فى حياتك 

بل تتقبلها الاول و تقعد معاها لحد ما يتنفس عنها و بعدين تبتدى تفكر فى فكرة ايجابية بالتدريج 

يعنى لو مخنوق تعيط و تطلع كل الكبت اللى جواك و بعدين تبتدى تفكر فى حاجة تريحك نفسيا و بعدين لما تتحسن شوية تشوف فكرة أحسن و هكذا لحد ما تنتقل من السلبى للأيجابى 

لكن أنك تقاوم السلبى. بكل قوتك ده أكبر ضرر ممكن تعمله لنفسك و لجسمك

تانى حاجة الحياة زى ما قلت بتخلقها بأفكارك و فى حاجة حلوة اوووى اسمها ال contrast

كل حاجة وحشة بتحصلك بتخيلك تعرف أنت عايز ايه 

يعنى تعرف الأشياء بضدها

يعنى لو مفلس هتعرف أنك عايز فلوس 

يعنى لو موقف سلبى استمر فترة كبيرة فى حياتك و انت طول الوقت الموقف ده بيفكرك باللى انت عايزه و انت مركز عليه هتوصل فى الاخر للى انت عايزه 

أهم حاجة تعرفها أنك تركز على اللى انت عايزه و تبعد تركيزك عن الحاجات اللى انت مش عايزاها

انت بتجذب لحياتك كل حاجة انت متوافق مع طاقتها حاجة بيسموها ال alignment 

سبحان الله احنا بنقولها كل يوم فى الصلاة اهدنا الصراط المستقيم

يعنى بنسأل ربنا ان يخلينا aligned مع كل حاجة احنا عايزينها

يعنى تكون على نفس الخط مع الحاجات اللى انت عايزاها يكون ترددكم واحد 

زى الراديو لازم تضبط موجتك عشان تلقط المحطة

ايه اللى ممكن ميخلكيش على نفس الخط ؟الأفكار و المشاعر السلبية

انما الايجابية التفاءول التركيز على الهدف السريان مع الحياة و تقبلها الفرحة و السعادة كل دى حاجات بتخليك على نفس الموجة فتلقط كل الحاجات الايجابية 

عشان كده بيقولك التخيل الابداعى ده أحسن حاجة تعملها عشان توصل بسرعة للى انت عايزه 

انت بتتخيل الموقف و تعيش الحالة حالة الانبساط و الفرحة انك أخيرا فعلا عندك الحاجات دى فعقلك بيصدق انها حقيقة مش خيال فينفذها لو استمريت فى التركيز عليها اكتر من مرة

لان العقل الباطن مش بيفرق ما بين الحقيقة و الخيال و هو المسئول عن عملية جذب كل الأشياء اللى انت مصدقها لحياتك

كل معتقداتك فى الحياة موجودة فى العقل الباطن 

بس ممكن تمشى كله صح و تنسى اهم خطوة و هى عدم التعلق بالنتيجة

كل ما تتعلق بحاجة اوووى و تبقى هتموت و تلاقيها او تحققها انت بتعبدها عنك مش بتقربها 

لان طاقتك طاقة desperation يعنى طاقة يأس 

لو بتحس أنك و لا حاجة من غير الحاجة دى و حياتك كلها ملهاش معنى و انك عايش بس عشانها يبقى هتتعب كتير عشان توصل للحاجة دى

لان جواك بتبقى معتقد ان الحاجة دى مش لسه موجودة فى حياتك وانك مش راضى و لا سعيد من غير الحاجة دى فبتعبد عنك بدل ما تقرب لانها طاقة سلبية

لازم تكون سعيد و متقبل الحياة زى ما هى سواء عندك الشىء اللى بتحلم بيه او لأ

اهم حاجة ان تكون على اتصال دائم بمشاعرك بمعنى أن تشعر كل مشاعرك و تعبر عنها سواء سلبية او ايجابية و لا تهرب منها او تكتمها او تنكرها

فالمشاعر وضعها الله داخلنا كبوصلة لتوجهنا الى الطريق الصحيح

فعندما تشعر مشاعر ايجابية كالفرح و السعادة و التفاءول فاعرف انك على الطريق الصحيح لتحقيق هدفك

و عندما تشعر مشاعر سلبية كالحزن و الحقد و الكراهية اعرف انه يوجد شىء خطأ بداخلك يخبرك انك لست مع اتفاق مع أهدافك و يجب أن تعرف هذا الخطأ و تبدأ تنفس عن هذه المشاعر بأسلوب صحيح بدل من انكارها او تجهلها

اعرف انك انت ديما بتختار مصيرك

اعرف أنك روح عايشة لتحقيق مهمة معينة

كل الناس اللى فى حياتك هما أرواح اتفقت معاهم لما تيجوا الارض انكم تحققوا مهمة معينه او تساعدوا بعض فى تعلم دروس معينة بهدف الارتقاء بالروح و الوصول بيها الى اقصى مراحل الارتقاء و من وجهة نظرى للوصول الى الجنة فى النهاية

كل موقف صعب شايف نفسك فيه من وجهة نظر الروح هو درس قيم تتعلم منه 

لقد اختارت كل شىء فى حياتك قبل مجيئك الى الارض لذلك المصير و القدر و النصيب ما هى الا اختياراتك كروح اختارتها لتعيش تجربة معينة

فكل ظروفك و بيئتك و الاشخاص اللى فى حياتك تساعدك على تحقيق هذه التجربة و تدفعك دفعا فى اتجاهها

فمثلا اذا اخترت كروح انك تجرب تجربة “الحرية” فسوف تجىء الى الحياة و تجرب نقيض الحرية تماما فى كل شىء و ستولد رغبة قوية داخلك لان تعيش حياة الحرية و ستجد كل الظروف من حولك تدفعك فى هذا الاتجاه حتى تحصل على الحرية و بهذا تكون حققت مهمة الروح




Time is an illusion and really relative ,the past and the present and the future exist at the same time but all in different dimensions,it’s interesting how we think we are living in three-dimensional world while everything is happening at the same time

The movie interstellar showed this idea of relativity of time when spending only one hour on a different planet equals seven years on Earth !!

When cooper gets stuck in the fifth dimension,he was in future and he was able to see himself in the past and all things was happening simultaneously!

And what he thought was a Ghost was him from the future trying to send a message to his daughter 

There were no aliens but people in the future was finally able to penetrate through this illusion of time and space and contacting their past selves!

It’s also about survival ,scarifice and trying to find a new home as the Earth is supposedly comeing to an End and human race about to go extinct 

An Epic movie that literally moved me to tears ,very entertaining and of the most amazing movies I’ve ever seen 🙂

10 things that annoy me about Men!


What annoys me about men

1- Seeing themselves as the superior sex ,Enough said!

2-The big Ego and the need for control is number one reason behind wars and every stupid political decision

3-suppressing their feelings ,men just ignore feelings and they deny and suppress how they feel lest they appear “feminine”!

4- NOT TALKING ABOUT “FEELINGS”!No man would talk about how he feels no matter how much you try to get them to be in touch with their feelings! And the result is so unconscious men!

5-Underestimating Women,seeing women as inferior or complicated or crazy as if women are the alien sex while they are the most reasonable and rational human beings!

6-Not differentiating between love and lust ,seeing both as one!

7-Bragging about being players as if they won some medal!

8-misunderstanding Masculinity ,seeing it as having power and control ,abusing women,acting tough and never showing feelings!

9-Being Control Freaks

10-Always claiming to be Right and having all the answers and Not admitting their mistakes!

10 things that annoy me about Women!


What annoys me about Women

As being a woman I noticed these things about our gender as females and it really annoys me that feminity now becomes so superifical idea of being hot ,sexy or whatever concept the society creates as the  definition or role of being a woman!

1-what annoys me most about Women is that we see our self worth in our bodies and in how we look ,that we invest too much time and money in caring about our bodies while forgetting and neglecting our minds and souls

2- that we are men pleasers ,we would do anything and everything to please a man ,sometimes even at the expense of our well being

3-Making marriage and finding a Husband our only purpose in Life to the extent that we see our selves as worthless if we are single ,like being in a relationship is the answer to our very existence in life!

4-that we are so self-hating gender ,we hate other women ,become so jealous ,envious and competitive with other women and gossip about other women behind their backs ,those other women could even be your sister or your best friend!!

5-the constant nagging and complaining about everything in life and never feeling like we have enough! 

I have to admit nagging is women’s speciality!

6-Too much sacrifice and self-denial ,seeing that as love while in fact it is not!

7-caring too much about fashion ,accessories ,diets ,recipes ,cooking ,etc.

By the way ,I care about those things too as any woman but Moderation is the key here

8- negative self-image and low self-esteem ,obsession with dieting as if we have to achieve bodily perfection to be worthy!

9- seeing ourselves as worthless ,useless,incomplete ,unlovable (you name it) without a man!

10-Believing You can only choose one thing :having a career or getting married!

Why parents suffer and make their children suffer too?!

Why parents suffer and make their children suffer too?!

Each parents who identifies with his role as a parent whether a mother or a father suffer Alot in this lifeIdentifying with the role means you think you are the controller of everything regarding that role

For example if you are a mother ,you might think that you “own” your children ,that you have to think for them ,take decisions on their behalf ,becoming overprotective,canceling your own private life and making it all revolves around taking care of your children to the extent of not longer you can have a sense of self without them ,as we say it “You live the role” 🙂

The same thing with fatherhood ,fathers can even become more dangerous becoz the ego of men is so much bigger than that of a woman

When you make motherhood or fatherhood your identity ,the Ego would do everything imaginable to protect that identity 

You would refuse to step out of that role even when your children grow up ,wanting to make their own choices ,wanting to enjoy their freedom and becoming independent .in other words,your children will become less and less dependent on you or even far away from you and it means one thing ,the loss of your own identity 

That is when the Ego releases so much fear inside you telling you “no you cant let that happen “becoz that would mean the destruction of the identity you built which in that case “being a mother”

You try to use control ,emotional manipulation and every other tactic in the book to make your children “yours” ,to still be the authoritative voice of a mother in their lives ,you think you know better ,you tell them what to do or not to do and not just that but even forcing them to abide to your rules 

That when hell breaks loose ,the adult son or daughter now wants to protect their freedom of choice while the parent still wants to control and be “the boss” ,the power struggle rises and it lead to clash of wills 

The parents do not know or understand that their children are free souls that have its own will and freedom to choose ,they choose to come through this channel which represents their current parents so they can help them achieve their mission in life not to hinder their progress

Now the parent can only do one thing which is to guide their offspring once they become adults but the need of control in any way is creating bad karma for the parents

As children,the parents need to feed,protect and take care of their own kids and love them unconditionally and also gave them the freedom to choose and not to suppress that instinct inside of them

 As adults,the job of the parents is only to guide and give their children advice and give the freedom to choose and make their own destiny 

That way both parents and children can lead a healthy life on every level

So parents have to get some facts straight 

(A) they don’t “Own” their children so they have no right to control their choices ,lives and future 

(B) their children are in essence free spirits who has chosen everything in their life including them ,once they hit adulthood they are responsible for their choices and its consequences

(C) according to astrology ,we were living in the astral world ,looking for a channel which is our parents to come here on Earth ,so every parent is the choice of the child to be his parent ,so your child chose you to help him or her accomplish their mission on Earth so please dont stand in their way by thinking you know better!

According to spirituality, All relationships are based on something called “soul contracts”, in which one soul helps another to reach its goal and achieve its mission on earth,so parent-child relationship is the same ,two souls are trying to help each other

(D) Every mistake your children make is the way their soul evolve and expand ,your job as a parent is not to stop your children from making mistakes but to help them learn from them

Once again,I have to emphasize this one more time “You don’t Own Your children”.

Souls’ mission II

Souls’ mission II

What I learned from being a control freak for too long,I learned Surrender ,acceptance and going with the flow It is said that what you resist persists and it is absolutely true .try to push against something and you will find yourself back to square 1

I learned that it is okay to say No only when you intuition and your heart tells you so ,in other words don’t go against your feelings( your internal guidance system),going against your feelings simply means resistance 

You cannot go wrong with your destiny ,it means you can never make a mistake even if it seems like a mistake becoz it is meant to happen anyways ,that’s the only way you learn and evolve as a soul by making so-called “Mistakes”!

If you understood that everything in this life is predestined and it was our choice before we even come here to Earth to choose a certain path in life,you would never grieve over anything again or at least you would embrace everything with acceptance 

You will go with the flow 

You will let go when something is over

Every loss,every struggle ,every mistake would have a meaning ,a step to lead you to the top of the mountain “Your evolution”

God created us and inspired our souls to be good or evil but it is our choice here on earth to choose goodness or evil ,it is like our souls has a potential to reach the highest good or the highest evil and we saw it every day in the news ,whenever there are wars in the world and destruction ,you would find in that same place people who are trying to rescue the injured and the starved ones 

Life is a test that brings the best and the worst out of us 

Life is a game that we are playing to reach our target goal 

Everyone has a role in this life to play ,do not get identified with that role 

If you are mother for instance ,think of your role as a mother but you are not the mother ,it means you are not the controller of the lives of your children ,think of it as a doing a service for someone and you are playing the role as best as you can but you are not the role 

You are the soul that is playing the role 

The circumstances does not matter

The place you live in does not matter

 Your every day to day life details does not matter 

All these things are a means to an End.The End is what you came here to experience as a soul .if you came here to experience freedom for instance then freedom is what matters the most ,to feel and experience it in every area in your life 

It is a means to reach your highest potential as a soul through the trials and challenges you face on daily basis 

As a soul you know the answer to everything but you can’t access that wealth of knowledge while you mind is full of mental chatter 

When you can silence the mind ,you can hear the voice of your intuition 

The soul wants to expand and evolve and reach its highest potential

And it can only do that through coming here in that physical dimension to learn certain lessons which serves its purpose

For instance ,the soul which wants to experience freedom ,might choose very restrictive home environment ,the total opposite of what it wants 

But through this contrast of restriction Vs freedom ,the desire rises in the soul to seek freedom and it could spend a lifetime just to experience this freedom 

To know you life path ,I find numerology very beneficial tool that can help you unravel that info 

You can google it and find out your life path number 

My life path number is 5 which is all about freedom 

Also in astrology ,they say that the sign in your north node is the lesson you come here to learn and experience 

While south node is what you already achieved and both north and south nodes are signs opposite each other like Leo and Aquarius ,Virgo and pisces ,etc